Yes. In my opinion jealousy is natural and perfectly understandable.
I had a boyfriend for two years and I felt jealous lots of times, I had full
confidence in my boy, but I hadn't in the other girls. And of course, when some
girl crossed the line I felt nervous and insecure, but I knew that he never
gonna do anything. Was just that he's a little silly, and maybe if some girl
crossed the line he didn't know.
But in the majority of cases the problem wasn't the
fear of that he makes something wrong with another girl, I knew that he never
cheat on me, the problem was: why he did some things that only can do with me
with the other girl? If he hugged some girl a lot of time, or he danced with
another girl, or he talked a lot about another girl, I felt jealous. And
if he pays attention to another girl I felt jealous too.
But in my case, I felt more jealous for their friends,
because he spent a lot of time with them, and he always want to spent time with
them, he can spent a full weekend with them, because all of them have a hobby
in common, and a lot of times he stand up me for them, so I felt jealous of
them.
I tried didn't feel jealous, but I can't. You can't
control your feelings. Feeling is natural, and jealousy is a feeling, so, you
can't control jealousy, and it's natural.
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